My family is planning our grandmother's 90th birthday and she keeps talking about 'the old days' in ways that make some of us uncomfortable, and we're all walking on eggshells because we love her but we also can't pretend her version of the past doesn't leave out a lot of pain that other people in our community experienced.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love across generations requires holding space for different relationships to the same historical moments.
“Where Are You with Historical consciousness and temporal depth?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.