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How families use future hope to avoid present reality

My family keeps making plans for 'when things get better' but we never talk about what if they don't, and I'm starting to feel like our hope has become a way of avoiding dealing with what's actually happening right now.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hope has become a shared defense against uncertainty rather than a grounded orientation toward possibility.

Ideas that help explain it
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“Where Are You with Hope as temporal orientation?”

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