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Scenario

How friend groups get stuck in planning perfectionism cycles

My friend group always takes forever to plan anything because we want every detail to be perfect for everyone, so by the time we actually meet up it's been months and half the people can't come anymore and we're frustrated with each other. Last week we spent three hours in a group text trying to find the perfect restaurant that met everyone's dietary restrictions and price range and we ended up not making plans at all.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Collective desire to optimize for everyone's needs is paradoxically preventing the group from actually connecting.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Perfectionism and time?”

Peri

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