Periagoge
Scenario

When couples schedule connection but lose spontaneous intimacy

My husband and I both work demanding jobs and we keep scheduling 'date nights' but then we're too tired to really connect, just going through the motions, and I wonder if we're optimizing for the wrong thing when what we really need is just five unguarded minutes in the kitchen.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The effort to create meaningful time together has become a barrier to actually experiencing it.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Quality time vs. quantity of time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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