My husband and I disagree about our daughter's college plans and he keeps saying 'it's in Allah's hands' while I think we should actively guide her, and we're stuck between trusting qadar and feeling responsible as parents.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are navigating the tension between divine predestination and human agency in shared decisions.
“Where Are You with Islamic qadar and divine time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.