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When couples struggle to maintain digital boundaries together

My husband and I keep saying we need to create boundaries around work emails at home but we both break our own rules constantly and then feel guilty about it and neither of us wants to be the enforcer. We've had this conversation so many times that bringing it up again feels pointless but the problem is getting worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people cannot hold a shared intention because they have not yet learned to move at the same speed.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African philosophy of technology — Ubuntu and the examined tool?”

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