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When couples get stuck waiting for the perfect time to pursue shared creative goals

My partner and I both have this thing where we can't start our creative projects until we have the perfect amount of time and the perfect setup, so we keep waiting for the right moment that never comes and our shared dreams just sit there untouched. We've been talking about writing together for two years and we still haven't written a single page because it's never the right time or we don't have enough uninterrupted hours.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are paralyzed by the need for ideal conditions, creating a shared stalemate that prevents any forward movement.

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