Periagoge
Scenario

When couples can't align on what trade-offs to make

My partner and I both want to move somewhere quieter and simpler but we keep getting pulled into looking at expensive places in the same busy area because that's where the good schools and jobs are and we can't figure out what we actually value more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people discover their shared dream dissolves when it meets the practical world, revealing unexamined differences in what matters most.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Algorithmic politics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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