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When couples inherit the same family patterns and get stuck repeating them

My partner and I discovered we both inherited the same trauma patterns from our families around money and conflict avoidance, and now we're stuck in this weird loop where we recognize what's happening but can't seem to break out of it together. We keep having the same fight our parents had, using almost the exact same words, and afterward we look at each other like we're watching ghosts.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are witnessing themselves enact inherited scripts while feeling powerless to write new ones together.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ancestral time — how the past lives in us?”

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