Periagoge
Scenario

When couples clash over linear versus cyclical approaches to life milestones

My partner and I have been fighting about wedding planning because they want to follow their family's traditional timeline that spans two years with seasonal ceremonies and I keep pushing for a simple linear plan with a single date six months out and we're both feeling like the other person doesn't understand what marriage even means.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two different relationships to time itself are creating a collision between efficiency and meaning.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Linear vs. cyclical time — cultural differences?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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