My partner and I have been fighting about wedding planning because they want to follow their family's traditional timeline that spans two years with seasonal ceremonies and I keep pushing for a simple linear plan with a single date six months out and we're both feeling like the other person doesn't understand what marriage even means.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two different relationships to time itself are creating a collision between efficiency and meaning.
“Where Are You with Linear vs. cyclical time — cultural differences?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.