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Scenario

When couples procrastinate on major life decisions together

My partner and I have been putting off major life decisions for two years now and we've developed this elaborate dance where we both avoid bringing up the hard stuff because we're afraid of what we might decide together and we've gotten so good at procrastinating that we don't even notice we're doing it anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are unconsciously colluding to avoid choices that might change their shared future.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Procrastination — psychological and philosophical dimensions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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