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Scenario

When couples can't agree on wedding ceremony plans

My partner and I have been talking about having a wedding ceremony for two years since we eloped but we keep getting stuck because they want something small and meaningful and I want our families there and every time we plan something one of us ends up feeling like we're compromising what matters most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that the same event can hold completely different meanings for different people, and forcing consensus might diminish what makes each meaning valuable.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ceremony and marking time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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