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When couples struggle with sharing social media history

My partner and I have been together for eight years but they've never seen my social media from before we met and I don't know how to show them without explaining why I was so different then. We talk about everything else but this feels like this huge gap between who I was and who I am now and I don't know if hiding it is making it worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of past digital selves creates an invisible barrier to intimacy in the present.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Social media history?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.