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When partners have fundamentally different views on pornography's role in relationships

My partner and I have completely different comfort levels with porn - they see it as normal entertainment and I see it as affecting our intimacy - and we're both tired of the same argument but don't know how to get to something new. We love each other but this keeps creating distance between us.

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Two people are trying to bridge genuinely different worldviews about sexuality and connection.

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