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When couples can't agree on time management systems

My partner and I have tried four different time management systems this year and we keep falling back into chaos because I want structure and they want flexibility and we can't find something that works for both of us. We spent last weekend arguing about whether to use a shared calendar or separate ones and I think we're missing something bigger about how we actually want to live together.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two different relationships to structure are colliding without acknowledgment of what each person actually needs from time itself.

Worth thinking about

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