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Scenario

When couples can't agree on whose schedule takes priority

My partner and I keep fighting about whose schedule gets priority when we plan things together and we both work demanding jobs but somehow mine always seems to bend to accommodate theirs and I don't know if I'm being fair or if there's actually an imbalance. We've never actually talked about how we decide whose time matters more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that beneath calendar logistics lies the deeper question of whose time holds more value in your relationship.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined calendar — whose time is it??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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