My partner and I keep fighting about whose schedule gets priority when we plan things together and we both work demanding jobs but somehow mine always seems to bend to accommodate theirs and I don't know if I'm being fair or if there's actually an imbalance. We've never actually talked about how we decide whose time matters more.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're discovering that beneath calendar logistics lies the deeper question of whose time holds more value in your relationship.
“Where Are You with The examined calendar — whose time is it??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.