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When couples struggle to follow through on plans together

My partner and I keep making elaborate weekend plans together and then when the weekend comes we're both just drained and end up scrolling on our phones, feeling guilty and disappointed in ourselves and each other.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are caught between the desire to create meaningful time together and the reality of your shared depletion.

Ideas that help explain it
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.