My partner and I keep saying we'll put our phones away when we're together but we both keep reaching for them and then we both feel guilty and disconnected and neither of us knows how to actually break the pattern without making the other feel policed.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people want the same intimacy but are caught in competing habits that neither feels empowered to change alone.
“Where Are You with Time and love — being present with who you love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.