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When couples realize radical transparency has unintended consequences

My partner and I open-sourced our relationship by sharing everything on social media and with friends but now we realize we don't know how to have private conflicts anymore and everything feels performative.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who eliminated privacy are discovering that some things need protection to develop properly.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Open source as philosophy?”

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