Periagoge
Scenario

When partners experience the passage of time at different rates

My partner is five years older than me and lately they've been talking constantly about retirement planning and how we need to make every moment count, while I still feel like I have plenty of time and their urgency is stressing me out. We're experiencing time completely differently and it's affecting every decision from weekend plans to major life choices.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Mismatched perceptions of time's pace create friction in shared planning and present-moment experience.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Aging and time acceleration?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.