My partner works from home and I work in an office and we cannot figure out whose relationship to time should define our evenings and weekends because their day bleeds everywhere and mine is chopped into rigid blocks. We're living in completely different temporal worlds.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're trying to synchronize lives that operate on incompatible temporal rhythms without examining whose rhythm becomes the default.
“Where Are You with The examined calendar — whose time is it??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.