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When couples disagree about managing ex-partners on social media

My partner's ex keeps commenting on their old Instagram posts from years ago and my partner doesn't want to delete the posts because they're part of their history but it's driving me crazy. We've talked about it but we keep going in circles about what's respectful to our relationship versus what's controlling behavior.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The persistence of digital connection forces navigation between honoring personal history and protecting present intimacy.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Social media history?”

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