My roommate and I have completely different relationships with noise and light for sleep and we keep making compromises that don't work for either of us. We're both trying to be considerate but neither of us is getting the rest we need.
More people experience this than they realize.
Mutual accommodation is creating mutual deprivation instead of creative solution.
“Where Are You with Sleep as time relationship?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.