My spouse and I agreed that saving for our kids' education was the priority but every time there's a family emergency or opportunity we raid that fund and justify it later. We both do it but we're both resentful about it and nothing changes.
More people experience this than they realize.
Life keeps testing whether your priorities are principles or preferences.
“Where Are You with Priority and what it actually means?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.