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Scenario

When perfectionist couples enable each other's paralysis

My spouse and I are both perfectionists and our house projects turn into these intense collaborative disasters where we enable each other's need to research everything to death instead of just starting.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your shared high standards have become a sophisticated form of avoidance that you perform together.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African ubuntu time — event-based and relational?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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