My spouse and I are struggling with fertility and we keep going back and forth between trusting in Allah's timing and taking medical action, and we're not aligned on when effort becomes a lack of faith versus when faith requires us to use the means available to us.
More people experience this than they realize.
The tension between surrendering to qadar and exercising human agency creates different responses that can divide rather than unite a partnership.
“Where Are You with Islamic qadar and divine time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.