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When couples can't find natural rhythm for deeper conversation

My spouse and I both feel like we're always catching up with each other in ten-minute downloads and we miss the rhythm of actually sharing a day's experience but when we try to set aside 'real talk time' it feels forced and scheduled. We want deeper connection but can't find the natural timing for it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are learning that intimate attention has its own timing that can't be forced or scheduled.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attention and its relationship to time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.