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Scenario

When neurodivergent couples trigger each other's procrastination shame

My spouse and I both have ADHD and we've created this household system where we procrastinate on different things and then get frustrated with each other's delays while ignoring our own and we're stuck in this loop of judgment and defensiveness that's making everything worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people with similar struggles are unconsciously shaming each other instead of creating supportive systems together.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Procrastination — psychological and philosophical dimensions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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