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When couples struggle with timing major life decisions

My spouse and I both want kids someday but we never talk about when because every time we start the conversation it becomes about all the things that need to happen first and we end up feeling overwhelmed by time instead of excited about the future.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to control temporal conditions has made natural unfolding feel impossible, turning anticipation into anxiety.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hope as temporal orientation?”

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