Periagoge
Scenario

When couples over-optimize their shared calendar and lose spontaneity

My spouse and I both want more spontaneous time together but we're so locked into our coordinated calendar system that we've forgotten how to not plan things and now 'spontaneous' requires scheduling which defeats the entire purpose. We've optimized the life out of our life.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your efficiency in coordinating time has eliminated the possibility of uncoordinated time.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined calendar — whose time is it??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.