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Scenario

When couples get stuck in recurring conflicts that aren't about what they seem

My spouse and I keep having the same fight about money where they want to save everything and I want to actually live and we both think we're being reasonable. We're not really fighting about money but we don't know what we're actually fighting about.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Surface disagreements often mask deeper questions about values and security that partners haven't learned to discuss directly.

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