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Scenario

When trying harder to be present makes things worse

My spouse says I'm never really present when we talk because I'm always thinking about something else and they're right but when I try to force myself to focus it makes me more scattered and self-conscious.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The effort to be present can paradoxically create more distance from the natural awareness that connection requires.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Mindfulness and being here?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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