Periagoge
Scenario

When parent and teen both want change but can't create it

My teenager and I keep having the same conversation about phone use where we both agree they're on it too much but then nothing changes and I don't know if I should set harder boundaries or trust them to figure it out and they seem as frustrated as I am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Agreement on the problem does not create the conditions for change, leaving both people feeling powerless.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Algorithmic politics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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