My teenager created accounts I didn't know about and when I found them they said I was violating their privacy by even looking, but some of the content they're sharing makes me worried about their future. We agreed they could have more independence online but now I don't know where the line is between keeping them safe and respecting their growing autonomy.
More people experience this than they realize.
Parent and child are negotiating autonomy in a space where consequences feel both immediate and permanent.
“Where Are You with Data and identity — who owns you online?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.