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When parents can't enforce phone boundaries they've set

My teenager spends all their time on their phone and I keep threatening to take it away but never do and we both know I won't follow through and it's created this weird dynamic where we're both pretending the rules matter when they don't.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Authority and care are colliding in the space between stated values and actual follow-through.

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