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When families discover hidden social media activity

Our family discovered my teenage daughter has been deleting her social media posts before we can see them and now we're all pretending we don't know but we're also all acting differently around phones. Nobody wants to be the surveillance parent but we're also worried about what she's hiding and the whole dynamic feels poisoned.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The archaeology of digital behavior reveals fractures in trust that no one knows how to address directly.

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