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How friend groups navigate collective boredom and planning fatigue

Our friend group used to always have plans but now we just text 'anyone want to hang out?' and then no one suggests anything specific and we end up not seeing each other. We're all saying we're bored but no one wants to be the one who organizes and we're slowly drifting apart from pure inertia.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When everyone wants connection but no one wants responsibility, shared emptiness becomes shared avoidance.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boredom and empty time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.