Our friend group used to hang out and just exist together but now every gathering feels like an event that needs to be optimized and documented, and I miss the old way of just being present without performing. Everyone seems to feel the pressure but no one wants to be the one to suggest we stop trying so hard.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to maximize and capture social experiences can diminish the simple presence that made them meaningful.
“Where Are You with Time in relationships — the gift of presence?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.