We keep planning this big celebration for our anniversary and every year it becomes this stressful production where we're both exhausted afterward and wondering why we can't just enjoy the actual moment. It feels like we're performing our happiness instead of living it.
More people experience this than they realize.
The effort to mark significance often consumes the significance itself.
“Where Are You with Ceremony and marking time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.