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When children delay bedtime to extend connection

Every bedtime takes two hours because my kids need water, bathroom, one more story, and I lose my patience but I know they're just trying to stretch time with me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The child's stalling behavior is actually a bid for more presence from a parent who has been unavailable all day.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and time — how they experience it?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.