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Why social media metrics control your mood

Every time I post something I check the likes obsessively for the first hour and if it gets less than my usual amount I feel like I did something wrong with my actual day.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You have given external validation authority over your internal worth, creating a dependency that grows stronger with each check.

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“Where Are You with Instagram and comparison culture?”

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