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When the urge to fix prevents true presence

I am always trying to fix my partner's problems when they are upset instead of just listening and they keep telling me to stop but I cannot seem to help myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The compulsion to solve can become a barrier to the simple presence that love actually requires.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Time and love — being present with who you love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.