Periagoge
Scenario

When you perform your identity for your long-distance partner

I change my profile photo thinking about whether he'll like it and realize I'm curating myself for an audience of one person who's supposed to love me as I am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Digital self-presentation can infiltrate even intimate relationships with performance anxiety.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-distance relationships via technology?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.