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How fantasizing about relationships sabotages actual connection

I deleted all my dating apps because I realized I was already planning our wedding during first dates and then getting disappointed when guys did not live up to my imaginary future.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Living in an imagined tomorrow prevents us from receiving what is actually being offered today.

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