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Why children mirror parental restlessness

I get angry when my toddler won't sit still during story time but I realize I'm the one who's always multitasking and can't just be present for ten minutes.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The parent is asking the child to embody a quality of presence that they themselves have not cultivated.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and time — how they experience it?”

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