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Scenario

When anticipation turns into anxiety before promising dates

I have a date tomorrow with someone I'm genuinely excited about and I keep imagining all the ways I might mess it up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're robbing yourself of present joy by rehearsing future disappointments that may never occur.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.