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How shame about unemployment creates elaborate deceptions

I haven't told my parents I lost my job two months ago and I'm running out of fake stories about why I can't visit them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Fear of diminished standing transforms temporary setbacks into sustained dishonesty that compounds suffering.

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