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When trying harder in your relationship makes things feel more forced

I keep planning elaborate date nights with my wife but we both just end up tired and going through the motions.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Effortful attempts at connection can backfire when they replace the natural rhythms of attention and presence.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Time in relationships — the gift of presence?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.