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Why saying no feels impossible in relationship-centered cultures

I keep saying yes to every social invitation because saying no feels rude but I haven't had a quiet weekend in six months and I'm starting to resent everyone.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Harmony preservation overrides self-care until resentment poisons the very relationships being protected.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with East Asian time and face-saving?”

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