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Why waiting for perfect conditions sabotages self-care

I keep telling myself I'll start exercising 'when things calm down' but things have been chaotic for three years straight and my back hurts constantly now.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The myth of eventual ease prevents present-moment care, making temporary chaos into permanent neglect.

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